Friday, September 28, 2007
Time to Say Goodbye
Tuesday, August 14, 2007
Sunday, August 12, 2007
A Picture is Worth a Thousand Words
After we left the ER we went to get his prescription filled at CVS. Pete dropped me off so he could go pick up some lunch before we headed home. I picked up the medicine and a few other things and went outside to wait. Exhausted and flooded with bright sunshine, I missed the curb step and broke my foot.
Yes, you read that right: I broke my foot 30 minutes after we left the ER.
I called Pete and asked him to pick me up and take me back to the ER. After four hours there—x-rays, Vicodin (!!), jello—I was released wearing a boot and on crutches. I was told I had a bad break in an “unusual” place.
Yea!
I went to the orthopedist on Wednesday (HUGE thanks to Penna for the ride and moral support!). I received excellent news: I didn't have to have a cast and I didn't need surgery. I will wear this lovely boot for six to eight weeks, though! After five days completely off the foot, I can get up on crutches; however, I can't weight bear on the foot for three weeks, due to the placement of the break.
STILL. I can take the boot off when I am down and I can still get in a pool, which is EXCELLENT given that our temps are now in the 100s!!!!
So, right now I am on the couch with my foot up in the air. Thad (after starting antibiotics on Thursday) is well on his way to health. Pete? Pete is exhausted with two full-time jobs! He has been great!
Also, huge props to Leeanne, who has stepped into the gap in a big way to serve Thad and me while Pete was at his other job. She cleaned, played with Thad, ran errands, and was my general handmaiden . . . all on her last week of summer vacation before returning to Texas A&M for her sophomore year. Thad is totally in love with her and I harbor a big affection as well!
We do have our senses of humor and I think that, along with a good dose of God’s grace, will pull us through in fine form.
So. How's your summer shaping up??
Wednesday, June 06, 2007
A Life-Long Ponder
Weird.
Thursday, May 03, 2007
All Gone . . .
As you can see, half of it was "left" at the end of the storm. We lost the rest this evening to the tree doctors. Because Texas has been so dry for the last several years, the trees were too dry to withstand the wind. If the tree-half were left, it would either rot or fall on the house.
I was so looking forward to Thad playing under this tree this summer. I wanted him to have a sandbox or a sand/water table under the protection of the tree.
(For Mrs. Henry Mills Alden)
A poem lovely as a tree.
A tree whose hungry mouth is prest
Against the earth's sweet flowing breast;
A tree that looks at God all day,
And lifts her leafy arms to pray;
A tree that may in Summer wear
A nest of robins in her hair;
Upon whose bosom snow has lain;
Who intimately lives with rain.
Poems are made by fools like me,
But only God can make a tree.
Wednesday, April 25, 2007
My Favorite Word of the Day
Tuesday, April 24, 2007
We are the Stories We Tell
It used to be that family reunions were an annual event of each and every summer for the extended Anderson Family. Our 600-acre farm would overflow with people ranging in age from one week to 90 years young. A volleyball net would be set up, the front lawn hosted a softball game, the horses were saddled and ridden, Grandpa’s homemade “jitneys” were gassed up and zooming around the farm. Lawn chairs and picnic tables were set up all over the orchard. Tables fairly bowed under the weight of my Grandma’s excellent potato salad, plates of grilled chicken and hamburgers, every kind of jello/whip cream salad you can imagine, pies in a variety of summer fruits.
Best of all was the crowd of people! Between my parents, they have nine siblings who have supplied me with scads of cousins. There were also great-grandparents, great-uncles and –aunts, cousins removed any number of times, and a plethora of honorary relatives, too. As the talk and activity swirled around me, I felt loved and protected and significant. I belonged to something bigger than myself!
Grandpa Evan died eight years ago. It has been eight years since I’ve seen the more immediate relatives. The others I haven’t seen since I was a teenager. Typing this last sentence grieves me very much.
But earlier this month I made an April Fool’s Resolution: I am going to plan a family reunion for next year. Every month I am going to send out letters, make phone calls, beg, plead, cajole, and flirt my way into producing a family reunion. I need to hear Uncle Joe’s story of the bullet shattering the light bulb and grandpa’s yell shattering his ear drum! I need to hear how Uncle Jeff flipped the motorcycle while showing off for a girlfriend in front of Grandpa and Grandma. I need to remember I come from a specific location and a specific family.
God’s kindest (and most confounding) gift is the gift of each other in family--
Wednesday, April 18, 2007
They say there is a young lady in [New Haven] who is beloved of that almighty Being, who made and rules the world, and that there are certain seasons in which this great Being, in some way or other invisible, comes to her and fills her mind with exceeding sweet delight, and that she hardly cares for anything, except to meditate on him--that she expects after a while to be received up where he is, to be raised up out of the world and caught up into heaven; being assured that he loves her too well to let her remain at a distance from him always. There she is to dwell with him, and to be ravished with his love and delight forever. Therefore, if you present all the world before her, with the richest of its treasures, she disregards it and cares not for it, and is unmindful of any pain or affliction. She has a strange sweetness in her mind, and singular purity in her affections; is most just and conscientious in all her actions; and you could not persuade her to do anything wrong or sinful, if you would give her all the world, lest she should offend this great Being. She is of a wonderful sweetness, calmness and universal benevolence of mind; especially after those seasons in which this great God has manifested himself to her mind. She will sometimes go about from place to place, singing sweetly; and seems to be always full of joy and pleasure; and no one knows for what. She loves to be alone, and to wander in the fields and on the mountains, and seems to have someone invisible always conversing with her.
Thursday, April 12, 2007
Hail to Texas!
Growing up on the farm, inclement weather meant everyone gathered at Grandpa Evan's and Grandma Johnnie's and fun was had! If we were snowed in, there was a big pot of chili (before we lost the electricity), sleeping in sleeping bags in the living room, missing school, playing games, etc. The town grandparents--Grandpa Keith and Grandma Wanda--would bring groceries to the end of the road where it met the highway and we would snowmobile the half-mile to get them. Fun!
If there was a tornado warning or bad winds, then we'd run up to the "big house" (not a jail, just what we called my grandparents' home!) and try to guess when to quick run to the basement! The power would often go out and the air was electric with excitement (and electricity from the lightning, too!)! Danger approached!
My aunt Julie had duly filled me up with horror stories for every situation. For the tornado, it was that a piece of straw had been wind-driven through a man's heart. To this day, when there are high winds I try to make sure that there isn't any loose straw around!
Oh, all the impending disaster!
Anyway, one day last week I was aware, sort of, that it was kind of dark outside, but it wasn't until I received an e-mail from my mom (in Iowa) that said she hoped that I (in Texas) was watching the weather and that I had a plan.
A plan? I suddenly realized that I didn't even have a basement, let alone a plan! For some reason, even though they live in a state with a healthy tornado season, Texans don't build every house with a basement. Like, ours doesn't have a basement. We do have a garden tub which is quite deep; however, it shares a wall with a huge picture window.
We have beautiful vaulted ceilings. We have a house FULL of gorgeous floor-to-ceiling windows. We have new carpet.
Yes, we have no basement. (Sung to the tune of Yes, We Have No Bananas!)
Thankfully, it only hailed. We do have a garage.
No plan yet, though.
Wednesday, April 11, 2007
So. Incredibly. Sad.
Friday, March 30, 2007
Thanks, Flemon!
Saturday, March 24, 2007
URGENT
This is NOT an “iffy” story; Eric did NOT commit this murder. Please go to this site and acquaint yourself with the facts. You can see the YouTube video made to try and raise awareness about this gross miscarriage of justice.
Then I beg you to do three things:
1 Pray as often as you are able for Eric: his spirits, his health, his appeal, his safety, his freedom.
2 Forward this to as many people as you can, including local news outlets, contacts you have in marketing, PR, government . . . get it out there.
3 Write Eric & his family a note of support through his website. Maybe make a donation, even. These notes and gifts are sustaining the Volzes through this nightmare.
Thank you for reading and for acting.
“. . . Righteousness and justice are the foundation of his throne.” (Ps. 97.2)
“When justice is done, it brings joy to the righteous but terror to evildoers.” (Prov. 21.15)
Kϊrsten & Pete Christianson
http://solakirsten.blogspot.com/
http://thadwatch.blogspot.com/
You’ve heard about the Nicaraguan trial I’ve been involved in – my friend Eric
Volz is in prison.
A YouTube video has been made by a couple NYC filmmakers
to raise awareness – we need to get people to view this so that it rises up the
rankings and creates a sensation.
Please view it and forward to your
distribution lists:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8YChhOHrFA4
Thanks!
Nick
Purdy
President, On The Square Media
404.493.1176
http://www.onthesquaremedia.com/
Monday, March 19, 2007
"It's MINE Turn": A Message from Thad
Saturday, March 17, 2007
Why I am Glad I Moved to Texas
Monday, February 19, 2007
Finally Back to Our Striving-to-be-Regular Programming!
Pete, on a business trip, is in Florida schmoozing for a living while Thad and I have hunkered down. We had dinner with some friends the other night. They have a little baby who is nine months old and she is delightful! Thad is very intrigued: what is this thing that cries sometimes and keeps trying to touch me and take what I have?
I miss Pete when he is on a trip, but I have to admit to being enough of an introvert that I do relish the few days of alone time (outside of the toddler that lives with me!). When Thad is asleep there is a quiet and a rest in knowing that I am (as much as a mom ever is) "off duty." I am free to exercise a little self-care.
I come from a family of women who recoil at those words: self-care. My mom's parents, grandparents and great-grandparents were farmers who worked hard at making their farm a success. For the women, it meant getting up at dawn to get breakfast on, get the kids up and ready for school (and care for the pre-schoolers), pack lunches for the men heading out to the field, get dinner started, put the house to order, do the breakfast dishes and do any outside chores that were considered "women's work": feed the chickens, table scraps to the hogs, work the garden, etc., etc., etc.
My mom and her siblings all had farm chores, too. There were animals to be cared for, lawns to be mowed, equipment to be fixed and cleaned, eggs to be hunted (and washed [ugh] and crated), etc., etc., etc.
By the time I came along, the farm had changed a lot and I really didn't have many farm chores. Feeding a few animals, mowing the lawns (extensive but great tanning opportunity!), and anything else that needed doing. However, the work ethic was passed down all the same. "Idle hands are the devil's tools."
If ever you want something done, or you need help moving or setting up house or building a barn, call my family. (And really, you can call any Iowan!) They can come in and get a whole house unboxed and set up in a day. It is a thing of beauty.
I can't recall my grandmother ever just sitting and doing nothing. Even while sitting and watching television, she was knitting or crocheting something for the family or a friend. She kept a very clean house (and my great-grandmother kept an immaculate house). She did the farm finances. She cared for her mother and her mother-in-law. She raised seven kids with an age spread of 17 years.
I am grateful for this way of life because I know I can do anything that has to be done. I have an amazing amount of reserve. I know how to work through pain for a greater good. I know how to see a job to completion when it simply has to be done. I know the value of the gift of a job well-done.
I wish there had been a little more balance, though. God does call us to rest one-seventh of the time. I find it hard to grasp that people actually prefer my presence to my baked goods. My (self-) worth gets tied up in what I accomplish rather than who I am.
This year, I am going to rest more. I am going to sit and look into people's eyes and listen to their hearts with my whole being. I am going to enjoy people.
A few years ago I heard a pastor say that he had never heard a person on their deathbed wish they had worked more. It was always a wish for more time with people.
I am going to make my wish come true this year.
Saturday, February 17, 2007
LOVE this!
Technical Difficulties!
Favorite geek quote (when asked about his job): "You know, the question is always the same. But the answer is different for every machine that I put my hands on to fix."
Great.
Monday, February 12, 2007
An Ode to Andrew & Karen
Our dear friends Andrew and Karen came to visit us last week. They are one of the best fringe benefits that came with Pete. The Rogers have packed us, moved us, unpacked us, organized us . . . and they work better than pitosin: I went into labor after dinner with them!
You won't find two more real, down-to-earth, wise people. The only thing they really leave Rationality Road for is their insane love of Pugs--and once you meet theirs, you sort of understand.
Poor Karen has gotten to know more of me than she ever wanted. She took me for my post-natal check-up (she was on vacation from work). I told her it wouldn't take more than an hour. During that hour-that-turned-into-three, she was mistaken for a woman who was there for a colonoscopy (We managed to convince the nurse it was the OTHER woman in the red coat that was there for the procedure; whew.), she had to change and care for Thad (he was two weeks old and she doesn't have children); and she had to practically carry me down to the car after I ended up having a D&C in the office (nice drugs--great for the pain, bad for making sense and walking on my own steam)!
So now you see why I LOVELOVELOVELOVELOVE the Rogers. LOVE.
By the time the Rogers showed up in Texas, we were probably 75% unpacked and moved in; I knew that once Karen stepped into the house, the rest would be taken care of in very. short. order.
And it was.
While they were here they unpacked the rest of the boxes (minus Pete's stuff);they rearranged furniture so our feng was more shui; set up my cozy office; shelved our books; and set up our Tivo. All of this and great fellowship, too. They are precious to me.
The quote above talks about the joy found in doing nothing together--and that's what we did for five very busy days. We just did a bunch of nothings that added up to a very big something: they helped us make a home here in Texas.
Whether we were moving bookshelves between rooms, installing dimmer switches, or watching Court-TV (well, Karen and I did), Andrew and Karen communicated that our friendship was still about "enjoying those moments of life that are utterly simple," whether in Seattle or Texas.
Thank you, Sweet Rogers. I will do nothing with you anytime.
Polly & (the late) Oliver Rogers (Gretel has joined the household, but I haven't received a Pug Announcement and picture yet.)
Sunday, February 11, 2007
An Open Letter to Al Gore
Saturday, February 10, 2007
Why I Love Texas (so far)
- Dickey's BBQ! Pulled pork. Lean smoked Ham. Fried okra. Pecan pie. Need I say more!
- Genuinely friendly people! Our neighbors brought over homemade chocolate chip cookies!
- Huge house with fenced backyard and two-car garage--and we can still eat and put a little in savings, too. Seattle is so yesterday.
- SuperTarget, Home Depot, Best Buy, and two grocery stores are within five minutes in every direction. (Well, maybe 10 minutes.)
- Chick-Fil-A (I'm having some waffle fries for you, Shannon!)
- BIG sky!
- We're in the Central Time Zone so I can watch Dave Letterman and still get a decent night's sleep! (And now that we have Tivo, it just got easier!)
- The Southern Drawl . . . it's music to my ears!
- God isn't a dirty word.
- There are more churches than cows here . . .
Surely I will find a church that loves people and has a minister who preaches soul-inspiring, intellectually challenging, well-organized sermons--Yea!
I also hear that it gets hot down here (repeated conversation: "We just moved here." "How do you like it?" "We like it a lot!" "Wait til the summer."). However, since we moved here in mid-December, we have had two ice storms and seven days of sun. In between it has been cold, cloudy and often rainy.
Maybe Seattle isn't as yesterday as I had hoped . . .Friday, February 09, 2007
Resolutions
So in the interest of dancing with my ambivalence: I write now. (Right now.)
My new baby . . . Isn't CallieRose-Vivienne beautiful?
This in contrast to my nightmare experience of selling my Honda in Seattle, which I will write about today or tomorrow and is guaranteed to put you into the aghast category!
We flew to Plano on 12/13 and spent nine days in an extended-stay hotel. We moved into our new (leased) home on 12/22 (the movers were early!!!). We are rattling around our large home--Thad loves riding his trike through the family room, the living room, the dining room, and the kitchen!
The three weeks between Pete's accepting the position in Plano and our actual move were fast, stressful, sad, and bittersweet.
We said goodbye to dear friends who had lived our stories with us, both as single people and then as DINKs and then as SIOKs!
Pete & the Domainiacs
My BookBabes
I said goodbye to the best educational/transformational process I have ever had.
Generall, we laughed, we cried . . . it moved us, Bob. (VeggieTales)
(Hi Kendall!)
We had friends gifted to us! Jachin and Amanda are sharing their Plano friends James, Amy, and Eliana with us!This isn't actually James or Amy or Ellie; but it's the only picture of a James Wiebe I could find! (Thank you, Google Images!)
And let me introduce you to my new best friends whom I love enough to marry should Pete kick the bucket before me.
Who knew there could be such joy in laundry? I cannot say enough good things about my LG Friends. I feel so badly for anyone who doesn't have friends like these . . . ! Rhapsodize, rhapsodize, rhapsodize!
Thad started pre-school, just two days per week (there's only so much time I can give him up!). He goes to
This week was his first week and he was wonderful! He walked in with a little hesitation but no tears or clinging. (I, however, sobbed in the car both days.) His report cards were excellent!
Our Seattle friends Andrew and Karen came down this week to help us rearrange the house and install Tivo--they are great like that!
All in all, we are happily settled and grateful for a new start in an affordable land!
The words that have repeatedly crossed my mind this last month I now offer as a prayer back to the One who gave them to us:
and Amen.
Thanks for reading!
Kïrsten M. Christianson